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By Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche \u2022 6 min read[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text el_class=”sharepost”]\n\t\t\t\t
SHARE:\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/i><\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/i><\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/i><\/a>\n\t<\/p>[\/vc_column_text][vc_btn title=”TRY FOR FREE” style=”outline” color=”peacoc” align=”left” el_class=”btn-post” link=”url:https%3A%2F%2Fjoy.tergar.org%2Fjoy-of-living%2F||target:%20_blank|”][\/vc_column][vc_column width=”1\/12″ lms_has_clearfix=”0″ offset=”vc_col-lg-2 vc_hidden-xs”][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row u_row_style=”1″ lms_row_has_bk_offset=”0″ lms_row_bk_columns_offset=”0″ u_row_enrollment_restriction=”0″][vc_column width=”1\/12″ lms_has_clearfix=”0″ offset=”vc_col-lg-2 vc_hidden-xs”][\/vc_column][vc_column width=”5\/6″ lms_has_clearfix=”0″ offset=”vc_col-lg-8″][vc_column_text el_class=”subtittle-open-post”]<\/p>\n Once I was giving a teaching on love. The theme of the talk was that everyone has love within them. No matter what the circumstance, who you are, or where you are in the world, you have love 24 hours a day \u2014 even when you are feeling anger or hatred. During this talk, it looked to me like all the students were very happy. I was, too.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column width=”1\/12″ lms_has_clearfix=”0″ offset=”vc_col-lg-2 vc_hidden-xs”][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row u_row_style=”1″ lms_row_has_bk_offset=”1″ lms_row_bk_columns_offset=”0″ u_row_enrollment_restriction=”0″][vc_column lms_has_clearfix=”0″][vc_single_image image=”110655″ img_size=”full” alignment=”center” css=”.vc_custom_1674652632909{padding-top: 30px !important;padding-bottom: 30px !important;}” el_class=”hidden-xs”][vc_single_image image=”110654″ img_size=”full” alignment=”center” css=”.vc_custom_1674652654912{padding-top: 30px !important;padding-bottom: 30px !important;}” el_class=”visible-xs”][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row u_row_style=”1″ lms_row_has_bk_offset=”0″ lms_row_bk_columns_offset=”0″ u_row_enrollment_restriction=”0″][vc_column width=”1\/12″ lms_has_clearfix=”0″ offset=”vc_col-lg-2 vc_hidden-xs”][\/vc_column][vc_column width=”5\/6″ lms_has_clearfix=”0″ offset=”vc_col-lg-8″][vc_column_text el_class=”subtittle-open-post” css=”.vc_custom_1675098656732{padding-bottom: 40px !important;}”]<\/p>\n After the talk, when I left the auditorium, I saw a man waiting for me outside. Immediately he approached me and asked if we could speak privately. Once we had moved away from the others, he confided, \u201cThe story you taught about everybody having love is a beautiful idea. It\u2019s really appealing, and I liked it. But I need to let you know \u2014 it\u2019s not true for me. Maybe all those other people in the audience always have love, but not me. I hate myself every second of the day.\u201d<\/p>\n I listened to everything he had to say. Then I asked him why he had come to my talk. He replied, \u201cWell, I was hoping to learn something from you.\u201d I asked him why he had been hoping this. \u201cBecause,\u201d he said, \u201cI desperately want to get away from this feeling of self-hatred. I came to you wishing I could finally be free of it.\u201d<\/p>\n I asked him where he lived, which, as it turned out, was quite a distance away. He\u2019d had to buy a plane ticket to get to my talk and take a little time off work, too. \u201cSo, it took money, time, and energy to make this journey,\u201d I said, \u201call to get to this teaching of mine. It wasn\u2019t that easy. And yet you made all this effort. Why? Because you want to be free from this feeling of self-hatred. You want to be happy. So actually, you do care for yourself.\u00a0 This is love.\u201d Then, he understood.<\/p>\n Although sometimes you, too, may feel that you hate yourself and think, \u201cOh, I\u2019m useless . . . I\u2019m not good enough . . . There are many people who don\u2019t like me,\u201d that is normal. But you should understand that on a deeper level, all these apparently negative feelings are, in fact, coming from love. They are an expression of your fundamental desire to be happy and free from suffering \u2014 your innate goodness.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column width=”1\/12″ lms_has_clearfix=”0″ offset=”vc_col-lg-2 vc_hidden-xs”][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row u_row_style=”1″ lms_row_has_bk_offset=”1″ lms_row_bk_columns_offset=”0″ u_row_enrollment_restriction=”0″ lms_row_bk_offset_section_classes=”bk-qoute-full”][vc_column][vc_column_text]”If you’re determined to think of yourself as limited, fearful, vulnerable, or scarred by past experience, know only that you have chosen to do so. 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